okay welcome everyone
lovely to see you
so if we can
just rest
as presence
to be
not knowing
notice the breath
invite the mind to rest
by simply allowing your experience
to be whatever
it is
without
giving it any direction
presence is effortless
and it doesn’t matter
what appears to you
because whatever appears to you
doesn’t affect you in any way
except if you choose for it
to affect you
because you are the totality
you are not a particular
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entity
except if you choose yourself to be
a particular entity
because your reality is
the infinite Invisible Presence
your freedom of being
undefined
you are not a body mind
you’re not a male or a female form
you are this effortless aware presence
which is your reality
and whenever you leave it
to become somebody that exists in time and space
it is out of fear Freedom that you are doing so
because you are not a victim of the universe
you are the universe itself
universing
you are the Consciousness
the reality
of whatever appears to you
irrespective of
whether anything appears to you or not
that does not matter
relationship
is an expression of love
it is not a place
where you
maneuver your way
to get somewhere
or to get something
like the sunshine
shines unto
the universe
without any personal intention
it is simply the nature of the sun
to shine
like it is
the nature of
the surface of the pond to reflect the sunshine
or the moon the moonlight
similarly in this
dream of
wakefulness and
what we call life
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relationship is a place where we
manifest and express the love
and it’s a place of opportunity
where we can learn
about ourselves
about how we sometimes resist
sometimes we argue
on behalf of whom
we argue on behalf of the imaginary me
which has no reality
outside of your belief in it
but of what good is your belief
in this imaginary me
which leads you to argumentation
worry and concern
is it possible to live in a relationship
without a personal agenda
without defending our point of view
which traps us and limits us
is it possible to listen
listen without
judgment
without defending ourselves
without attacking
because the other is your very self
there is no other
outside of the intimacy of relationship
and in the intimacy of relationship
the other is your very self
sometimes in the relationship we use the other as
a punching bag
dumb power
frustrations
or to the other
which comes
right back
unto us
while it is available to us to
be open
to understand something about
ourselves about truth
in relationship
to understand something about love
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about freedom
about pain
about sorrow
about hurt
the sense of loss
oftentimes we use the other in relationship
we use them
to make us happy
we expect them
to behave in certain ways
we place conditions
we’re unaware how painful it is
for both
for everyone involved
and yet we are
so happy
when there is an expression of love
and kindness towards us
we love that
touches our heart
can we also do the same
can we also
be a conduit
express the love
that we love to receive
to express it
to relax our conditions
relax our expectations
trust the love
the expression of love and kindness
in this moment
not to be so preoccupied with our agendas
not to be so judgmental
because we don’t know
what the other one is
experiencing
what they’re perceiving
what they’re sensing
we don’t know
there is vulnerability in love
soft
it’s available to
experience whatever
the universe is presenting
you know the entire non-dual teaching can be
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summed up
in the word love
because love is truth
and truth is beauty
there is freedom
all the Divine principles
are present in love
love is not personal
it’s Universal
when we are that Universal love
when you assume yourself
to be a separate person
a limited personal self
your mind is deeply confused
we are not going anywhere
as body minds
it’s not about the future
but about living each moment
this moment and every moment
out of loving kindness
and intelligence and wisdom
whichever way we can
but to be interested
in the
expression of kindness and love
impersonal
expression
to explore
that direction